FAQs about trauma
What is trauma?
My definition of trauma is being forced into an extremely uncomfortable situation without your consent. It can occur as one event or multiple times over a period of time. It can occur at any time in one's life whether in childhood, as a teenager or in adulthood. Trauma can be either physical, sexual or emotional.
How common is trauma?
70% of adults in the United States have experienced some type of traumatic event at least once in their lives.
How can I tell if I or my partner has been affected by trauma?
There are three general ways one can be affected by trauma: thoughts, feelings or bodily sensations. Here are some specific examples:
Resistance to positive change
Fear of success or failure
Difficulty concentrating
Difficulty managing emotions
Difficulty asking for help
Low self-esteem
Trying to avoid certain thoughts, feelings or conversations
Feeling disconnected from others or oneself
Are there different kinds of trauma?
Yes. There is more kinds than PTSD which comes from an event. Trauma can can come from neglect over a long period of time usually during childhood. The most common types of trauma are acute, chronic, relational, developmental, complex, and vicarious.
How can trauma from the past affect my relationship with my partner?
Past trauma can show up in different ways in a relationship. A few examples of this:
Inability to resolve conflict
Withdrawal or avoidance
Lack of emotional intimacy
Difficulty with sex